We've always heard people telling us that we should grow with time and update ourselves with the latest fashion trends . But it is not really necessary that it be that ways. Now I am not telling that you should not follow these but what I am trying to explain is that you do not have to be that current diva if that is not really required for you as a person you are.
This goes for everything be it fashion, lifestyle advancements or social media. You just do not have to give into the pressure of looking and living a certain way. You do not have to follow the so called fashion divas or your favourite insta models just for the sake of it!
You push yourself so much into following these trends only because they are trendy and not because it's enjoyable . If you are one of that kind, just know that you do not have to do that. You can create your own trends and still be a diva. I've personally had a toxic behaviour keeping track with the trends just to prove others that I am cool. I realised that it doesn't have to be that way and here are a few reasons why.
This goes for everything be it fashion, lifestyle advancements or social media. You just do not have to give into the pressure of looking and living a certain way. You do not have to follow the so called fashion divas or your favourite insta models just for the sake of it!
You push yourself so much into following these trends only because they are trendy and not because it's enjoyable . If you are one of that kind, just know that you do not have to do that. You can create your own trends and still be a diva. I've personally had a toxic behaviour keeping track with the trends just to prove others that I am cool. I realised that it doesn't have to be that way and here are a few reasons why.
1. Cliché but yes, trends change.
Every trend changes. Something that is trendy today can be so off the limelight tomorrow . It makes no sense to follow a trend like that. It is more advisable to create a trend of your own than follow something that isn't constant. Embrace your style . That is what matters at the end of the day. Try to put up the best version of yourself.
2. These so called trends aren't usually compatible with your lifestyle.
Majority of us are normal people with normal jobs. We do not live the fantasized diva life. That just ain't practical. We have to go to our offices where we are required to dress up formally and not like weird funky and the so called trendy way. It is just not worth to invest on such apparels when you will hardly be able to use them. So it is wiser to buy stuff that is going to be put to use rather than buying it for that one Instagram pic.
3. Comfort comes first.
For me, if the clothing is not comfortable is trash. No matter how trendy or cool it might look, I won't wear it if it is not doing well on my body. You do not want to keep fixing your dress literally the whole day. It is just not a good sign. You are far better off wearing your t-shirt and jeans than dance your whole day in that trendy dress of yours.
4. You should be you.
We always loo
Do not worry about looking weird or being embarrassed. As long as you are being you , experimenting with your body , your are so ready to go.
A quick note folks, I am not asking you to not follow these trends. If you love to do so or if you are passionate about it, you should totally do it. But make sure you are not doing it because everyone around you is and you think that is what you are supposed to do, HELL NO guys.
I hope you found this useful. Please leave your comments below , I'd love to know what you people think. And do not forget to SHARE.
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